Top 10 Reasons to Rekindle an Old Relationship with Your Ex

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(Last Updated On: November 11, 2019)

You may have heard about couples who are on and off in their relationships. If you ask them, there is always a reason, which they think is good enough, for them to get back together. In your case, a breakup with your partner may sound like the end of it all, especially when there is a big heartbreak. But if you look into the issue deeply, you may find several reasons why you should get together. To make it easy for you, go through the points that are highlighted below. They are the common reasons why people should rekindle their past relationships with an ex.

You Are Addicted to the Drama

Being on and off with a relationship may get you hooked on the drama. After all, you no longer see the breakup between the two of you as a big deal, especially if no violence is involved. For you, mending things back to normal is a relief as you wait for the next drama that can happen at any time. If this works for you, then it is a reason that you should get back together if you already broke up some time again.

You Are Aging Fast

As you get older while in a relationship, there are a couple of facts that you have to face. The first is that finding a new partner is harder than when you were in your teens. The second is that you become attached to each other, and the bond becomes stronger. If this is the case, then you will agree that you are always thinking about your partner after separation. In such a situation, it is best to get back together after making some agreements on how to forge a path forward with life.

Your Partner Is Sorry and Remorseful

Whenever people are getting back together after a breakup, there is always some form of reconciliation. Both parties usually show remorse and interest in burying the hatchet and moving on. When your ex-partner is sorry and remorseful, it is worth considering her or his apology no matter how mad you have been with your ex. However, this is entirely a personal choice, particularly when the partner has hurt you.

You Share the Same Friends

After dating for years, you may have made familiar friends both in social circles and on social media. Therefore, you cannot altogether avoid each other since the friends will bring you back together in one way or another. In this case, it is easy to bump into each other and catch up even when you wish to avoid it at all costs. Many meetings that cannot be avoided will give both of you a reason to reconcile. Sometimes, people do it for their friends and family, only to realize that it has worked.

You Are Still Friends After Breaking Up

For many people, they think that breaking up means that it is all over. But others may agree to remain as friends even after a breakup. If you still see your partner once in a while, this is a significant reason to reconcile and get back together. Actually, many people find it easier to get back together with an old partner than to look for a new one. Although websites like happymatches.com help people to meet new partners, many are not yet comfortable with this.

The Breakup Opened Your Eyes

During a breakup, especially the first one, people get a chance to learn many things about their partners. It is a scenario that opens your eyes to things that you were not prepared for. If you have taken your time to come up with solutions for the challenges, then you are ready to reconcile with your partner. With this, you will now rest assured that it is easy to handle some problems without parting ways.

No One Can Replace Your Partner

People have good and bad sides. The main reason for any breakup is that you could not cope with the wrong side of your partner. However, if you have checked and cannot find someone better than your partner, then this is an excellent reason to get back together. The decision has to be made by both of you if you want to prevent future challenges. If your partner is uncertain, it is crucial to give her or him time to do some soul-searching to understand what your partner wants. So, your plan will not always work as you wish.

The Kids

Do you have children together? This is a big reason that you may end up getting back together. Some cases are solved in court, while others are concluded outside through an arbitrator. You could also decide to put down your differences and continue with the relationship for the sake of kids. Children do not deserve to suffer in any way. The good news is that kids will always bring separated couples together to handle issues related to child custody and support. You can decide to bypass all the drama and reconcile.

Things Are Different Now

When people are young in relationships, many things are bound to happen. But this changes as you get older. If you have been separated for a couple of years, each person will have matured. Of course, things will now be different from how they were. It is easier to handle situations differently now than it was years back. When you feel this way about your relationship, you can definitely rekindle it.

Change Is Not Your Thing

Years have passed, and neither of you finds the thought of looking for another relationship appealing. Probably, you both hate change. Of course, there are many things that you enjoyed together despite the differences, and you are now afraid that you will not experience them anywhere else. The fear of change hinders you from moving on. Therefore, you should consider this to be a significant reason to get together again.

Final Word

As you can see, there are many reasons to rekindle your old relationship with your ex-lover. However, this does not mean that you are obliged and bound to this. It should come from your heart after taking some time to make the decision.

by Jesenia Rogahn 

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